TOO MANY TIMES, we say if I only had .... OR it's ............. fault that I'm not happy (fill in the blanks) It's VERY easy to get caught in a mental trap of "IF I ONLY" The real TRUTH is that we are not promised tomorrow. There is no perfection in this life! We all need to stop striving and thinking that we just need one more thing to happen to be happy in life... We need to treat each and every day with thanksgiving in our hearts... the good, bad and ugly. Please know I'm not minimizing your circumstances, but the fact that I/you are still walking this earth means God is NOT finished with us yet! We ALL need to ENJOY LIFE NOW!!